Counseling Goals

       Marriage counseling aims to enhance spiritual, emotional, intellectual, physical, and sexual intimacy between spouses. Genuine intimacy thrives on vulnerability, necessitating trust, honesty, security, and transparency as foundational elements.

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Marriage Counseling Foundation

    At My Life Counsel, our approach to marriage counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview, with the fundamental belief that Christ should be the focal point of every relationship. We emphasize that marriage is not only a commitment between partners but, more significantly, a commitment to God. In a Christ-centered relationship, prioritizing God and selflessly attending to the needs of one's spouse takes precedence over personal desires. We view marriage as a sacred covenant made before God, forging an indissoluble bond between husband and wife. Our understanding of love aligns with the principles outlined in 1 Corinthians 13, distinct from conventional worldly definitions. Furthermore, we shape the character of both husband and wife based on the values delineated in Galatians 5.

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Marital Roles

       In marriage, the foremost priority is to align with God's desires above personal ones. The second priority involves prioritizing the needs of one's spouse over individual desires. The husband's role is to exemplify sacrificial love, mirroring Christ's love for the church, even to the point of Christ's ultimate sacrifice. This means every decision the husband makes is guided by prioritizing his wife's needs. Simultaneously, the wife is called to prioritize her husband's needs. Leveraging their unique God-given strengths, husband and wife collaboratively build a enduring and affectionate partnership. Our understanding of marital roles is derived from the principles outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33.

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Temperament Therapy

      Temperament therapy is an evidence-based therapy that is over 90% effective. It allows you to understand how God has made both of you as individuals. Understanding your spouse and yourself will enable grace. You can utilize one another's strengths to work through your weaknesses through grace. ​Read more

     “For you created my inmost being: you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”  ~ Psalms 139:13 - 14

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Marriage counseling can offer a range of benefits, including:

 

Improved Communication:

Counseling provides a structured environment where couples can learn effective communication skills, enhancing their ability to express thoughts and feelings.

 

Conflict Resolution:

Couples often face challenges and conflicts. Counseling helps them develop strategies to navigate and resolve issues constructively, fostering a healthier relationship.

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Enhanced Understanding:

Therapists can help couples better understand each other's perspectives, leading to increased empathy and compassion.

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Relationship Reinforcement:

Counseling reinforces the commitment to the relationship. Couples can reestablish connection and rediscover the reasons they came together in the first place.

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Skill Development:

Couples can learn practical skills to manage stress, cope with challenges, and adapt to life changes, strengthening their ability to navigate the complexities of married life.

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Emotional Support:

Marriage counseling provides a supportive environment where couples can express their emotions and concerns openly, with the guidance of a neutral professional.

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Prevention of Future Issues:

Addressing current concerns and learning effective relationship skills can prevent the escalation of problems, promoting long-term relationship health.

Increased Intimacy: By addressing underlying issues, couples can experience improved emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, fostering a deeper connection.

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Individual Growth:

Marriage counseling often involves individual self-reflection, encouraging personal growth to positively impact the relationship dynamic.

 

Renewed Commitment:

Couples may emerge from counseling with a renewed sense of commitment, dedication, and a clearer vision for their future together.

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        It's important to note that the effectiveness of marriage counseling depends on the willingness of both partners to participate and engage in the process actively.